I’ll admit I never purposely give relationship or dating advice and highly avoid meddling in those of my friends/close circle.

I did it once and it just ended up being a mess, one that weighed heavy on my heart.

That’s not to say I won’t listen to anyone express their concerns and issues but the response from me would be limited and neutral.

Personally in this life I’ve only had the interest of two women and one of which I ended up rather being fond of to endure having a complex long long long long term relationship which produced our daughter.

So being real I’d imagine (of age) teenagers and young adults have more experience with dating and would have numbers conquered and partners accumulated under their belt and while that doesn’t seem tasteful to me it is seen as very accomplished for the majority of people out there at least the vocal majority.

It seems there’s mountains of people today who have had sexual partners 20+ (from brief encounters to undisputed full intercourse) which is absolutely wild to me personally but I guess its a cultural thing for some people today.

I’ll stick to my rookie numbers. More energy, longer lifespan *wink*

I don’t know what it means to have (as a man) multiple women fall for you, express liking you or to throw themselves at you I don’t believe I’ve ever had that appeal, let alone consider having numerous one night stands with no meaning. That type of life isn’t for me but also it never seemed I was seen as attractive or a good catch to catch anyone’s eye so I guess that worked out.

Still because of this outlook I feel I’m not seasoned enough to give advice. Now obviously if something dangerous is going on I’ll have something to say and guide you but if it involves someone asking me should they breakup with someone then I’m not for it.

If it’s about spirituality, business or decent reading material, and thoughtful exploration spots to visit around the world and discussing the supernatural then by all means let’s talk.

Regards,

Alexander/Zenchi